Three months to be exact.

Two days after my last post, something happened. After that, everything I was planning on saying seemed so unimportant and empty and trivial.

I still feel like that, but here I am anyway,

If there’s possibly a silver lining (and I’m still not sure there is) it’s that it’s given us a lot to think about.

We’ve been talking about buying a house, but we didn’t get serious until this happened. I’ve been talking about writing a book, but I didn’t get serious until this happened. I’ve been avoiding dealing with some (quite frankly) emotional baggage, but I didn’t get serious until this happened.

One day at a time, I am –  we are –  figuring things out.